After 3 years of providing I’m practically ancient in hooker years, but I remember how intimidating it all was it first. This site isn’t intuitive, profiles aren’t standard, groups of guys are telling you how to think about women, & providers are a mixed bag as well, so how do you choose?
I recommend newbies start out with an experienced provider, like most things in life, it is better to try something new with someone who knows what they’re doing. So find a provider who’s been in the area a few years & is well respected by her community. I am one, there are others.
If you walk through my door, I will answer any general hobby questions you have, I will teach you some basics of how to select safe & sane providers, then how to speak to them once you’ve chosen. I will give you also give you the ride of your life, you may not want to ever see anyone else.
You’ve seen that not everyone is newbie friendly so what’s the deal? Basically two ways to start in the hobby, see someone sketchy who doesn’t screen, then use her as a reference and work your way to the tier of providers that you’re interested in. Oddly enough, this seems to almost be the method preferred, but then you’re having appointments with people maybe you don’t want to see. So why do what everyone else is doing? Do what makes you happy, this experience is about you, not the guys reading the reviews or the girls you’ll never see. Be selfish, get what you want.
Second option is what myself & some of the other experienced providers do. I speak to you, on the phone. I judge your character & you judge mine. We get to know each other as human beings, just a little bit. Then yes, I ask you for personal information to verify your identity. In days of yore, walking into a brothel, the madam knew what you wanted, often before you did. Her ability to read her patrons was valued & respected. The displacement of the internet/texting has taken that intuitive, interpersonal aspect of sex work out & replaced it with paranoia & confusion. Now here you’re thinking, why would I give my personal info to a strange whore?
Because I’m not a strange whore, I have been providing, with reviews & documentation, stellar experiences in Austin for over 3 years. I am respected by my fellow providers. All the horror stories I’ve ever heard by guys about bad experiences were because they booked a girl by her photos & didn’t look any further. You can never do too much research when selecting a provider. I have a twitter, I talk about movies, sports, food & a myriad of other subjects. I’ve taken the time & effort to make myself accessible to you guys, so that I’m not a nebulous scary figure. But it’s a two way street, you have to read that & you have to give a little back.
So yes, newbie friendly means I am willing to look beyond the fact that you’ve never paid for sex, I’m willing to look at you as a human being & judge your merits there.
I love seeing those new to the hobby because you’ve not been jaded by bad experiences with providers, or seen your predilections ridiculed on the forums. I want the exuberance of human sexuality, I want the bliss of far surpassing your expectations. I want to show you how beautiful sex work can be, before you see how ugly it can be.
Now, since you’ve done your research on me, since you’ve read these advertisements & https://www.missscarletdd.com, you know I’m naturally dominant kink inclined woman. I’ve heard of quite a few guys who want to see me but are scared as they think I have to be intense, I don’t. If you walk in the door nervous & shaky, I will be soft & kind until you’re comfortable enough to relax a little.
Actions are never what matters to me. BBBJ or spanking, cuddling or strap-on, none of it matters. All that does is how you feel when you walk out the door, so I will do what it takes to get there. If you have a checklist of services to be ticked off, then I am not the provider for you. I am an experiential indulgence, not a hobby or service professional. I don’t service you, I lead us both on a mentally & physically fulfilling encounter. Because you will leave drained, mentally & physically
Alright, now what? Call me. Let’s have a discussion. 512-593-1666
We will figure out where to go from there.
Give From Bush to Bare and Back Again: A Pussy’s Tale a read as well as I am different, than other providers, than other woman, than other human beings. I don’t quite live in the real world, & my realm is fucking magical.